Isabell GOATHAM

Abt 1837 - 1907  (~ 70 years)

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• Name	Isabell GOATHAM
  Relationship	with Teresa Ann GOATHAM
  Born	Abt 1837	Bredgar, Kent, England
  Baptised	12 Feb 1837	St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England
  	From PR entry (image on FMP, viewed 18 Jun 2019)
  Gender	Female
  Occupation	From 1861 to 1871
  	Dressmaker
  Residence	1871	Mackie’s Yard, Sittingbourne, Kent, England
  	With her husband and 3 children.
  Residence	1881	12, The Wall, Sittingbourne, Kent, England
  	Cubison was shown as unmarried and Isabel as a widow Isabel Gillingham, although Cubison had been married (and still was, as his wife didn't die until 1905, although she seems to have had a new partner by 1881, having had a son, probably with the new partner, in 1880), and Isabel too was still married.
  Residence	1891	1, Cross Street, Sittingbourne, Kent, England
  Residence	1901	10, Station Street, Sittingbourne, Kent, England
  Died	1 May 1907	2, Wickham Terrace, Queenborough, Sheppey, Kent, England
  	Cause: Cerebral Hæmorrhage
  	No death found in Kent with Isabel recorded with the surname Gillingham but she had been living as a Warren and was recorded as his wife when she died. GRO ref: WARREN, Isabel q2 1907 aged 70 Sheppey RD 2a 563 Although she was still in Sittingbourne at the time of the 1901 census, her partner was in Queenborough on Sheppey (i.e. in Sheppey RD) by the time of the 1911 census; this death registration suggests they had moved there together between 1901 and 1907. (Looking for the death registration I looked on FreeBMD for Isabel* born 1830-1845, died 1881-1937, with surnames Gillingham and Warren) Her death certificate (GRO copy) shows the informant as her son 'J. Warren'. However, she had no son with a name beginning with 'J' (other than James who had died as a boy many years before). I think it was probably Victor, and his name / initial was mis-read when the GRO copy was made.
  Siblings	4 brothers and 4 sisters
  + 1. Charles GOATHAM,   b. 1822, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 8 Oct 1901, Milton Reg Dist, Kent, England  (Age 79 years) ▻ Esther KEELER,  m. 12 Nov 1851 + 2. Susan GOATHAM,   b. Abt 1825, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 28 Apr 1886, Toronto, York, Ontario, Canada  (Age ~ 61 years) ▻ Richard DEAN,  m. 4 Dec 1847 ;   Thomas HUTSON,  m. Mar Q 1863   3. Charlotte GOATHAM,   b. 1828, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 5 Jun 1845, The Red Lion, Shooters Hill, Kent, England  (Age 17 years)   4. Michael GOATHAM,   b. 1831, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. Jul 1832, Bredgar, Kent, England  (Age 1 years) + 5. Caroline GOATHAM,   b. 4 Dec 1833, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 24 Apr 1920, Cazenovia, Madison Co., New York, USA  (Age 86 years) ▻ John DEAN,  m. 31 Jan 1857 + 6. Isabell GOATHAM,   b. Abt 1837, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 1 May 1907, 2, Wickham Terrace, Queenborough, Sheppey, Kent, England  (Age ~ 70 years) ▻ William Charles GILLINGHAM,  m. 9 Sep 1861 ;   Cubison Stickles WARREN,  m. Aft 1871 + 7. George GOATHAM,   b. 17 Oct 1839, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 15 May 1872, Bredgar, Kent, England  (Age 32 years) ▻ Elizabeth Ann FISHER,  m. 25 Dec 1866 + 8. Michael GOATHAM,   b. Sep Q 1842, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 26 Feb 1934, 918, Alger street, Fremont, Sandusky Co., Ohio, USA  (Age ~ 92 years) ▻ Sarah HARTNUP,  m. 26 Jan 1867 ;   Mary Ann STONE,  m. Dec Q 1897   9. Frances GOATHAM,   b. Sep Q 1846, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 21 Jan 1858, Bredgar, Kent, England  (Age ~ 12 years)
  Origins
  Patriarch & Matriarch	GOATHAM,   d. Yes, date unknown  (7 x Great Grandfather)  Maria ATWATER,   bap. 22 May 1774, St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   bur. 10 May 1819, St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England  (Age ~ 44 years)  (Grandmother)
  Person ID	I442	All | England: Kent Group (in Go(a)tham One-Name Study), England: Kent Group - subjects of Go(a)tham One-Name Study, All in the Goatham / Gotham One-Name Study , All subjects of the Goatham / Gotham One-Name Study, The descendants (and other halves) of George Goatham and Ann née Winch, The descendants (and other halves) of John Prior and Amy née Reynolds
  Last Modified	11 May 2024

  
  

  Father	George GOATHAM,   b. 1800, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 18 Feb 1885, Bexon Lane, Bredgar, Kent, England  (Age 85 years)
  Mother	Frances RAYFIELD,   b. 1803, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 1 May 1873, Bredgar, Kent, England  (Age 70 years)
  Married	12 Oct 1822	St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England
  	Notes from M Nightingale: in the Bicknor reg, but on page headed marrs at Bredgar! (FreeReg shows the marriage as at Bicknor, as does FamilySearch, but they might not have noticed the heading)
  Family ID	F290	Family Group Page  |  Family Chart

  
  

  Family 1	William Charles GILLINGHAM,   b. Dec Q 1841, Broadmayne, Dorset, England ,   d. Mar Q 1904, Canterbury Reg Dist, Kent, England  (Age ~ 63 years)
  Banns of marriage	From 25 Aug 1861 to 8 Sep 1861	Holy Cross Church, Bearsted, Kent, England
  	From banns register entry (image on FMP, viewed 20 Jun 2019)
  Married	9 Sep 1861	Holy Cross Church, Bearsted, Kent, England
  	GRO ref: GILLINGHAM, William Charles to Goatham, Isabell or Isabel [indexed with both name spellings] q3 1861 Maidstone RD 2a 660 Details from PR entry (image on FMP, viewed 20 Jun 2019) (I had date as 25 Aug from FamilySearch, but this it is now clear this was the first reading of the banns)
  Separated	Bef 1881
  	William and Isabell were living separately at the time of the 1881 census (3/4 April) and not found together in subsequent censuses. They appear to have separated between 1871 and 1881, probably by 1875 when Isabel seems to have had a son whose father was not William.
  Children	5 children
  + 1. George GILLINGHAM,   b. Jun Q 1865, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 27 Jan 1937, 2, Chatsworth House, Devonshire Place, Eastbourne, Sussex, England  (Age ~ 72 years) ▻ Rowena FULLER  m. Sep Q 1891;   Elizabeth Collinson LIDDIARD  m. Dec Q 1933 + 2. Isabel GILLINGHAM,   b. Mar Q 1868, Lower Halstow, Kent, England ,   d. Dec Q 1898, St. Pancras Reg Dist, London, England  (Age ~ 30 years) ▻ Alfred Thomas BEETCH  m. Mar Q 1892   3. James GILLINGHAM,   b. 25 Apr 1870, Mill Lane, Borden, Kent, England ,   d. 30 Mar 1878, The Wall, Sittingbourne, Kent, England  (Age 7 years) + 4. Victor WARREN,   b. 31 Aug 1875, 25, Dover Street, Sittingbourne, Kent, England ,   d. 27 Feb 1953, Lambeth Reg Dist, London, England  (Age 77 years)  [legitimate son]  [natural and legitima] ▻ Kate CHANTLER  m. Dec Q 1905   5. Cubison Percy WARREN,   b. 19 May 1881, 12, The Wall, Sittingbourne, Kent, England ,   d. 2 Sep 1966, Woolwich Reg Dist, Kent or London, England  (Age 85 years)  [legitimate]  [natural and legitima] ▻ Ethel ROWLSTONE  m. Sep Q 1909
  Last Modified	23 May 2020
  Family ID	F322	Family Group Page  |  Family Chart

  
  

  Family 2	Cubison Stickles WARREN,   b. Abt 1844, Wye, Kent, England ,   d. 18 Oct 1924, May Tree Farm, Upper Hardres, Kent, England  (Age ~ 80 years)  Other Partners: Matilda Harriett FARRINGTON  m. 14 Mar 1866
  Married	Aft 1871
  	Between 1871 and 1881 Isabel and her husband William Gillingham separated and by 1881 Isabel was living with Cubison Warren. The Christian names of Isabel's two children born in 1875 and 1881 plus both later using the surname Warren suggest that Cubison Warren was their father, and that suggests Isabel and Cubison may have been living together by 1875. Cubison was also married when he and Isabel got together. The 1871 census suggests that he had separated from his wife by then. Cubison and Isabel appear never to have married, although while Isabel and her children were recorded with the surname Gillingham in the 1881 census, by the 1891 they were using the surname Warren, with Cubison and Isabel appearing as husband and wife (as they did too in 1901). Isabel would have been free to remarry after her husband died in 1904, and Cubison after his wife died in 1905, so there was a small window when they could legally have done so. Maybe they didn't know, maybe after 30 years of living as though married it just didn't seem worth the trouble.
  Married?	Not married or evidence to suggest they didn't marry
  Children	2 children
  + 1. Victor WARREN,   b. 31 Aug 1875, 25, Dover Street, Sittingbourne, Kent, England ,   d. 27 Feb 1953, Lambeth Reg Dist, London, England  (Age 77 years)  [natural]  [natural and legitima] ▻ Kate CHANTLER  m. Dec Q 1905   2. Cubison Percy WARREN,   b. 19 May 1881, 12, The Wall, Sittingbourne, Kent, England ,   d. 2 Sep 1966, Woolwich Reg Dist, Kent or London, England  (Age 85 years)  [natural]  [natural and legitima] ▻ Ethel ROWLSTONE  m. Sep Q 1909
  Last Modified	11 May 2024
  Family ID	F9258	Family Group Page  |  Family Chart

  
  

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  		Born - Abt 1837 - Bredgar, Kent, England  Baptised - 12 Feb 1837 - St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England  Banns of marriage - From 25 Aug 1861 to 8 Sep 1861 - Holy Cross Church, Bearsted, Kent, England  Married - 9 Sep 1861 - Holy Cross Church, Bearsted, Kent, England  Child - George GILLINGHAM - Jun Q 1865 - Bredgar, Kent, England  Child - Isabel GILLINGHAM - Mar Q 1868 - Lower Halstow, Kent, England  Child - Victor WARREN - 31 Aug 1875 - 25, Dover Street, Sittingbourne, Kent, England  Child - Victor WARREN - 31 Aug 1875 - 25, Dover Street, Sittingbourne, Kent, England  Residence - 1881 - 12, The Wall, Sittingbourne, Kent, England  Child - Cubison Percy WARREN - 19 May 1881 - 12, The Wall, Sittingbourne, Kent, England  Child - Cubison Percy WARREN - 19 May 1881 - 12, The Wall, Sittingbourne, Kent, England  Residence - 1901 - 10, Station Street, Sittingbourne, Kent, England   = Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
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