Sarah Edith HADLOW

1866 - 1946  (80 years)

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• Name	Sarah Edith HADLOW
  Relationship	with Teresa Ann GOATHAM
  Born	23 Jun 1866	Borden, Kent, England
  	From the 1871 census where shown as aged 4 GRO ref: Hadlow, Sarah E q3 1866 Milton RD 2a 665; GRO online index shows middle name as Edith and does not show a mother's maiden name, suggesting she was illegitimate. Actual date from the 1939 register
  Baptised	5 Aug 1866	St. Peter and St. Paul’s Church, Borden, Kent, England
  	From PR entry (image on FMP, viewed 16 Apr 2019) "Sarah Edith daughter of Mary Ann Hadlow" - abode Borden, a dash in father's occupation field.
  Gender	Female
  Occupation	Bef 1894	Bredgar, Kent, England
  	Nurse
  Occupation	1911
  	Assisting in the business
  Occupation	Between 1921 and 1927	Sittingbourne, Kent, England
  	Nurse
  Residence	1939
  	With her daughter Hilda and Hilda's husband Albert Huxted, but Sarah too is recorded as a Huxted. I am confident it is this Sarah as: the year of birth is correct for her; the middle initial is correct of her; she is shown as a widow; Albert's mother was not called Sarah; I can find no evidence of Sarah in the 1939 register with the surname Go(a)tham. I have looked at the index on FMP of all Sarahs in Sittingbourne and Milton U.D. born 1866 +/- 2 years and no others look like they might be Sarah Goatham.
  Died	7 Oct 1946	9, Orchard Cottages, Church Road, Murston, Kent, England
  	GRO ref: Lawes, Sarah E q4 1946 Sittingbourne RD 5b 705 aged 80; GRO online index shows middle name as Edith Actual date and place from probate calendar entry
  Funeral	10 Oct 1946	All Saints’ Church, Murston, Kent, England
  	An account of Sarah's funeral appeared in the East Kent Gazette of 19 Oct 1946 (p. 5, col. 2): "The Late Mrs. Lawes. - The funeral of Mrs. Edith Lawes, of 9, Orchard Cottages, Murston, whose death was reported in last week's "Gazette," took place at Sittingbourne Cemetery on Thursday last week, preceded by a service at Murston Parish Church. The Rector, the Rev. F. M. Eagles, officiated. The mourners were: - Mrs. L. Jordan (daughter), Mr. and Mrs. S. Goatham (son and daughter-in-law), Mr. and Mrs. G. Moss and Mr. and Mrs. A. Huxted (sons-in-law and daughters), Mr. H. Goatham (son), Mrs. W. Roskell and Miss E. Jordan (granddaughters), Mr. and Mrs. R. Lawes, Mr. R. Lawes, and Mrs. A. Lawes (step-sons and daughters-in-law), Mr. A. Hadlow, Mrs. E. Hughesman and Mr. and Mrs. P. Ottaway (nephews and nieces), Mr. A. Hadlow (sen.), Mr. A. Hadlow (jun.), Mr. and Mrs. N. Jarvis, Mrs. H. Moys, Mr. and Mrs. J. Dood (cousins), Mr. and Mrs. Cook, Mr. E. Huxted, and Mrs. W. Cowles (friends). Floral tributes were from: Mr. and Mrs. L. Jordan; Mr. and Mrs. S. Goatham; Mr. and Mrs. G. Lavender and family; Mr. and Mrs. G. Moss; Mr. and Mrs. A. Huxted; Mr. H. Goatham; Grandchildren: Grandchildren (St. Mary Cray); Maisie and Bill; Arthur and Marjorie; Edna; Ruth; Ian and Margaret; Minnie and Ethel; All at Lenham; Lawes family (Dover); Millie and family; Maud and family; Albert, Hilda, Molly, Winnie, Nellie and Neil; Edie and Bert; Alice; Jim and Ada; Bert, Rose and family; Mrs. R. Aylett and family; Mr. and Mrs. A. Moss; Gladys; Mr. and Mrs. Christensen and family; Garry; neighbours; Eddie, Dot and Jean; Mr. and Mrs. Huxted and family; Ted, Doris and Mr. and Mrs. Purchase; Mrs. Ambrose and family; Mr. and Mrs. Mantle; Mr. and Mrs. Cook; Mr. and Mrs. Cowles and family; Mrs. Laming; Chris, Peter and Grand-dad. Messrs. R. High and Sons carried out the funeral arrangements"
  Buried	10 Oct 1946	Sittingbourne Cemetery, Sittingbourne, Kent, England
  	From obit.
  Obituary	12 Oct 1946
  	In the East Kent Gazette
  	"Ex-nurse's Death. - Well-known before her marriage as a nurse at Bredgar, Mrs. Sarah Edith Lawes, of 9, Orchard Cottages, Church Road, Murston, died at her home on Monday. Aged 80 years, Mrs. Lawes was first married over 50 years ago to Mr. Walter Goatham, who died after their silver wedding anniversary. Six years latter she married Mr. H. L. Lawes, of Dover, who died several years ago. After her first marriage, Mrs. Lawes lived at Dean's Hill Farm, Bredgar, which was owned by her husband. Between her two marriages she again took up nursing, this time in Sittingbourne. She is survived by two sons, Mr. S. Goatham, of St. Mary Cray, and Corporal H. Goatham, of the Canadian Army, and four daughters, Mrs. Jordan, of Sittingbourne, Mrs. G. F. Lavender, of New South Wales, Australia, Mrs. G. Moss, of Bredgar, and Mrs. Huxted, of Murston. Corpl. Goatham, whose home is in Vancouver, B.C., is at present serving in this country. There are 12 grand-children and two great-grandchildren. The funeral was held at Sittingbourne Cemetery yesterday (Thursday), preceded by a service at Murston Parish Church with Rector (the Rev. F. M. Eagles) officiating." (from p. 5, col. 5)
  Probate	18 Jan 1947	London, England
  	Calendar entry
  	"Lawes Sarah Edith of 9 Orchard-cottages Murston Kent widow died 7 October 1946 Probate London 18 January to Sidney Howard Goatham pigman and Dorothy Edna Moss (wife of Gilbert George Moss). Effects £915 9s. 9d."
  Child Status	Illegitimate
  Siblings	1 brother
  + 1. Sarah Edith HADLOW,   b. 23 Jun 1866, Borden, Kent, England ,   d. 7 Oct 1946, 9, Orchard Cottages, Church Road, Murston, Kent, England  (Age 80 years) ▻ Walter GOATHAM,  m. 15 Nov 1894 ;   Henry Lloyd LAWES,  m. 19 Feb 1927   2. Charles HADLOW,   b. Sep Q 1869, Borden, Kent, England ,   d. Yes, date unknown
  Half-siblings	3 half brothers and 2 half sisters (family of James MILLINGTON and Mary Ann HADLOW)
  1. Edward John HADLOW,   b. Dec Q 1872, Borden, Kent, England ,   d. 21 Oct 1920, Bredgar, Kent, England  (Age ~ 48 years) ▻ Carrie EPPS,  m. 25 Dec 1896   2. Herbert James MILLINGTON,   b. Sep Q 1874, Borden, Kent, England ,   d. 11 May 1954, Richmond, New South Wales, Australia  (Age ~ 80 years)   3. Frank Ernest MILLINGTON,   b. Sep Q 1876, Borden, Kent, England ,   d. Yes, date unknown 4. Minnie Caroline MILLINGTON,   b. 2 Dec 1878, Borden, Kent, England ,   d. 21 Jan 1963, Milton Hospital, Milton next Sittingbourne, Kent, England  (Age 84 years) ▻ William SWAN,  m. Oct 1901 5. Ann Maria MILLINGTON,   b. 24 Apr 1881, Milton Reg Dist, Kent, England ,   d. 16 Oct 1951, 4, Lime Tree Terrace, Lenham, Kent, England  (Age 70 years) ▻ Charles Wesley INGRAM,  m. 1 Feb 1906
  Origins
  Patriarch & Matriarch	Mary Ann BOTTLE,   b. Abt 1802, Newington next Sittingbourne, Kent, England ,   d. Dec Q 1874, Milton Reg Dist, Kent, England  (Age ~ 72 years)  (Grandmother)
  Person ID	I519	All | England: Kent Group (in Go(a)tham One-Name Study), England: Kent Group - subjects of Go(a)tham One-Name Study, All in the Goatham / Gotham One-Name Study , All subjects of the Goatham / Gotham One-Name Study, The descendants (and other halves) of George Goatham and Ann née Winch
  Last Modified	1 Dec 2023

  
  

  Mother	Mary Ann HADLOW,   b. Abt 1843, Borden, Kent, England ,   d. Jun Q 1903, Milton Reg Dist, Kent, England  (Age ~ 60 years) Other Partners: James MILLINGTON  m. 14 Dec 1872
  Married	(I do not know that Mary's illegitimate children had the same father)
  Family ID	F9409	Family Group Page  |  Family Chart

  
  

  Family 1	Walter GOATHAM,   b. Mar Q 1870, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 19 Sep 1921, Deans Hill Farm, Bredgar, Kent, England  (Age ~ 51 years)
  Married	15 Nov 1894	St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England
  	GRO ref: Goatham, Walter to Hadlow, Sarah Edith q4 1894 Milton RD 2a 1699 Details from PR entry (image on FMP, viewed 20 Jun 2019) Sarah being illegitimate her mother's name was entered as her father, though no occupation was given. Witnesses were Alice Ann Clifford, Edward Millington and Minnie Millington, the last two being half siblings of the bride.  The 1911 census shows that Walter and Sarah had had 6 children, all still living then - and with them at the time of the census.
  Children	6 children
  + 1. Edith Irene GOATHAM,   b. 29 Sep 1895, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 9 Apr 1960, 25, Shakespeare Road, Sittingbourne, Kent, England  (Age 64 years) ▻ Lawrence JORDAN  m. 4 Jan 1915 + 2. Sidney Howard GOATHAM,   b. 28 Oct 1897, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. Jun Q 1953, 9, Orchard Cottages, Church Road, Murston, Kent, England  (Age 55 years) ▻ Jennie Elizabeth DOUST  m. 5 Oct 1918 + 3. Maisie GOATHAM,   b. 16 Jan 1900, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 27 Jul 1989  (Age 89 years) ▻ George Francis LAVENDER  m. 17 May 1919   4. Dorothy Edna GOATHAM,   b. 10 Jul 1902, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. Feb 1994, Canterbury Reg Dist, Kent, England  (Age 91 years) ▻ Gilbert George MOSS  m. Dec Q 1930 + 5. Hilda Mary GOATHAM,   b. 16 Jul 1904, Bredgar, Kent, England ,   d. 3 Jul 1965, St. Bartholomew’s Hospital, Rochester, Kent, England  (Age 60 years) ▻ Albert Edward HUXTED  m. Dec Q 1924 + 6. Corporal Henry Campeny (“Harry”) GOATHAM,   b. 17 Sep 1906, Norton, Kent, England ,   d. 3 Aug 1965, Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada  (Age 58 years) ▻ Eileen Beatrice TATMAN  m. Dec Q 1946
  Last Modified	19 Dec 2019
  Family ID	F366	Family Group Page  |  Family Chart

  
  

  Family 2	Henry Lloyd LAWES,   b. Jun Q 1862, Crawley, Hampshire, England ,   d. 29 Apr 1936, 8, Worthington Street, Dover, Kent, England  (Age ~ 74 years)  Other Partners: Edith WARD  m. Jun Q 1885;   Rose Ellen DENNETT  m. 4 Jul 1889
  Married	19 Feb 1927	St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England
  	GRO ref: Goatham, Sarah E to LAWES, Henry L q1 1927 Milton RD 2a 1585 Henry C Goatham gave his mother's name as Mrs H L Lowes in 1927 confirming that this was, as I thought, his mother's 2nd marriage (Canadian pass list when he emigrated) Also, in the "Dover Express" - Friday 25 February 1927, in the marriages column: "LAWES - GOATHAM. - On February 19th, at the Parish Church, Bredgar, by the Rev. H. S. Alken, Henry Lloyd Lawes, of 8, Worthington St., Dover, to Sarah Edith Goatham, of Dean's Hill Farm, Bredgar."
  Last Modified	18 Dec 2019
  Family ID	F2954	Family Group Page  |  Family Chart

  
  

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  		Born - 23 Jun 1866 - Borden, Kent, England  Baptised - 5 Aug 1866 - St. Peter and St. Paul’s Church, Borden, Kent, England  Occupation - Nurse - Bef 1894 - Bredgar, Kent, England  Married - 15 Nov 1894 - St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England  Child - Edith Irene GOATHAM - 29 Sep 1895 - Bredgar, Kent, England  Child - Sidney Howard GOATHAM - 28 Oct 1897 - Bredgar, Kent, England  Child - Maisie GOATHAM - 16 Jan 1900 - Bredgar, Kent, England  Child - Dorothy Edna GOATHAM - 10 Jul 1902 - Bredgar, Kent, England  Child - Hilda Mary GOATHAM - 16 Jul 1904 - Bredgar, Kent, England  Child - Corporal Henry Campeny (“Harry”) GOATHAM - 17 Sep 1906 - Norton, Kent, England  Occupation - Nurse - Between 1921 and 1927 - Sittingbourne, Kent, England  Married - 19 Feb 1927 - St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England  Died - 7 Oct 1946 - 9, Orchard Cottages, Church Road, Murston, Kent, England  Funeral - 10 Oct 1946 - All Saints’ Church, Murston, Kent, England  Probate - Calendar entry - 18 Jan 1947 - London, England   = Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
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