Family: Cubison Stickles WARREN / Isabell GOATHAM (F9258)

m. Aft 1871


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  • Father | Male
    Cubison Stickles WARREN

    Born  Abt 1844  Wye, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location
    Baptised  2 Mar 1845  Ss. Gregory and Martin’s Church, Wye, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location
    Died  18 Oct 1924  Bridge Reg Dist, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location
    Buried     
    Married  Aft 1871   
    Other Spouse  Matilda FARRINGTON | F9261 
    Married  14 Mar 1866  St. Mary of Charity Church, Faversham, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location
    Father  James WARRENT | F9262 Family Group Page 
    Mother  Sarah STICKLES | F9262 Family Group Page 

    Mother | Female
    Isabell GOATHAM

    Born  Abt 1837  Bredgar, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location
    Baptised  12 Feb 1837  St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location
    Died  1 May 1907  2, Wickham Terrace, Queenborough, Sheppey, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location
    Buried     
    Other Spouse  William Charles GILLINGHAM | F322 (Separated) 
    Married  25 Aug 1861  Holy Cross Church, Bearsted, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location
    Father  George GOATHAM | F290 Family Group Page 
    Mother  Frances RAYFIELD | F290 Family Group Page 

    Child 1 | Male
    + Victor Warren GILLINGHAM

    Born  31 Aug 1875  25, Dover Street, Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location
    Died  27 Feb 1953  Lambeth Reg Dist, London, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location
    Buried  5 Mar 1953  Greenwich area, London, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location
    Spouse  Kate CHANTLER | F9263 
    Married  Dec Q 1905  Sheppey Reg Dist, Sheppey, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location

    Child 2 | Male
    Cubison Percy GILLINGHAM

    Born  19 May 1881  12, The Wall, Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location
    Died  2 Sep 1966  Woolwich Reg Dist, Kent or London, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location
    Buried     
    Spouse  Ethel ROWLSTONE | F9259 
    Married  Sep Q 1909  Dartford Reg Dist, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location

  • Notes  Married:
    • Between 1871 and 1881 Isabel and her husband William Gillingham separated and by 1881 Isabel was living with Cubison Warren. The Christian names of Isabel's two children born in 1875 and 1881 plus both later using the surname Warren suggest that Cubison Warren was their father, and that suggests Isabel and Cubison may have been living together by 1875.

      Cubison was also been married when he and Isabel got together. The 1871 census suggests that he had separated from his wife by then.

      Cubison and Isabel appear never to have married, although while Isabel and her children were recorded with the surname Gillingham in 1881, by the 1891 they were using the surname Warren, with Cubison and Isabel appearing as husband as wife (as they did too in 1901).
      Isabel would have been free to remarry after her husband died in 1904, and Cubison after his wife died in 1905, so there was a small window when they could legally have done so. Maybe they didn't know, maybe after 30 years of living as though married it just didn't seem worth the trouble.